Open Communication

There are so many things that have crossed my mind in these last several days! A young man who attends the same school as my son took his own life several days ago! Makes me stop and wonder what happened to this boy that his life was so full of despair. I wrap my arms around my kids even tighter when tragedy strikes near them. I encourage my kids to be open with me and talk to me no matter what it is about. We decided when our kids were young that our dinner table was the place where they could have an open forum and pretty much say whatever was on their minds as long as they were respectful. To this day, that rule still applies. My son will be turning 18 and my daughter will be 14. There have been many joyous conversations and many serious ones. The key being that the lines of communication are wide open! We have talked about sex, college decisions, etc. There is also a family meeting format that they can call if they feel it is necessary. My son has done this on several occasions so he could express feelings that were bothering him. I don't feel that I am here to be my kids friend but am here to help them grow up to become successful adults. Some of the things they share with me are the same things that they would share with a best friend and that makes me feel amazing. My life growing up was far from perfect and I share that with my kids. I did a lot of things that were wrong and learned from my mistakes. I tell them all these things because I Love them to the moon and back! Hug your kids and be a part of their lives!